cause teen pregnancy

Causes of Teen Pregnancy outside of Marriage

The problems often faced by adolescents are as follows:

1. Lack of parental affection
Adolescence is a time of dire need extra love and attention from parents and even other people. So when the parents lack of attention for various reasons one is busy with work. This causes a child looking for love outside their house to the opposite sex and relationships. Due to the lack of parental affection they will ask a great affection from her partner and the partner will provide any requested.

2. Lack of parental supervision of children
The indifference of parents towards their children every activity because of busy with the affairs of his work has resulted in each child is free to do whatever he wants because there are no rules, guidance and even parental attention given to their children. However, not only that, but that too much oversight is also not good for children's development because it will feel constrained so prefer to rebel and ignore the regulations given their parents.

3. Association with friends who are not peers
Peer groups provide an environment, which is a world where teenagers can socialize with prevailing values. No longer a value set by adults by friends. And place in the framework of teens discover herself.
Friends do not peer is a friend who does not age either younger or older than the teenager. If the child is hanging out with friends who are not peers are not directly follow the pattern of thought to follow them. Penetrated into the mindset of a pattern of behavior that tends to be harsh. For example, there are teenagers who hang out with younger people, must he be thinking as the most correct, smart and powerful. This is what makes his adherence to what he was told because there are feelings of fear or discomfort.
People say a lot of hanging out with older people will be able to add to the experience of life. That statement is not wrong if it  people who invited friends of the good people in terms of a mind, behavior, and a good heart. But the teenagers who hang out with older people is even more dangerous if the person is incorrect or sloppy, thinking adults who have a greater sex drive could wreak on innocent teenagers who are still without being able to resist. Although it can resist anything but a time will surely melt as well.

4. The role of science and technology developments that impact negatively
Contemporary science and technology has advanced, with technology coupled with the utilization of people who are not responsible. One is the use of social networking facebook. From the social networking arena of interaction that should be made or new friends, but cases of fraud or abuse to kidnapping a teenager. Initially is to get acquainted then invited  and  meet was not uncommon to end up with the rape and even murder.
Not only facebook, internet, television, VCD, magazines, etc. that smell is also confused used science and technology as a medium that is not feasible shown, for example pornoografi and porno-action which is clearly shown through the media. This is why teenagers are curious and want to practice it, without thinking first.

5. The lack of talent and media distributors her hobby
Talents possessed a teenager will not be stored and routed in the absence of media talent and hobby dealers. This is what causes them to look for activities that are less obvious, such as hanging, hanging out, dating, and so forth.

6. The basics of religion are less
Planting small religion that is less than this causes the faith of a teenager easily deterred, because of the actually educated religious instruction could also falter. They don't care religious rules because of the influence of foreign cultures that have influenced their thinking. For example, the POP of western culture is more compelling them to imitate the manners than eastern cultures.

7. There's no personality in the school guidance or college
School or college only serves as a formal educational services only, without providing media consulting for the student or students that when it is necessary, because adolescence is a period fraught with problems other than that teens also need guidance to find his true identity.

8. Freedom of excessive
Teens in desperate need of what he considers his freedom, but if too freely it is also not good. Record will arbitrarily without thinking about what will happen because the teen had a huge selfishness.

9. The problem is buried
Teenagers are usually embarrassed to tell her parents because of the problem on with reason ashamed and so on. What matters if the teenager does not want to talk with his friends. The problem will always pile up in his heart without any settlement and is the cause of teen depression and stress.

10. Association with a deviant partner
Association here means a relationship, so the intent of this point is the relationship that deviates by a couple who have not formally establish the bonds of marriage. It originated from the name of courtship normally, then in this process happens a lot of deviation and according to Islamic names could be called adultery although adultery is not the truth. Due to the eyes, speech, and the heart can be said of adultery in Islam.
11. Anti-social behavior
Current teen promiscuity is notice not in accordance with the regulations that exist in community. And oddly enough it illegitimate rule be ordinary things without guilt let alone deterrent. Even proud of that behavior.

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Meaning of Friendship

For me the meaning of friendship is a friend to play and have fun. I also often argue when different opinions. Surprisingly, the greater the difference, the more I like it. I learned many things. But there is a story that makes me think differently about the meaning of friendship. At that time, my mama papa on holiday to Bali and I was alone to keep house ... 

"Hahahahaha!" I laughed while reading.

"Ben! He said the task would look for a reference chemical, even read comics. This I found a book from the shelf next to, want to borrow or not? You take the card right? Anyway tomorrow Thursday, the group must complete all tasks. Originally we did tonight. Yuhuuuu ... after it is off duty.PlayStation! "Explains Judi with a loud tone. Judi people are simple, have a lot of sense, but many also fail, hehehe .. From high school grade 1 to grade 2 now - I used a bunch, different again if problems playing PlayStation - Judi champion. It was like he already know what will happen in the game. But somehow, though actually I do not like playing PlayStation, thanks to Judi, I went along like playing games. My friends are the second is Jon Bang, real name Jonathan. Jon Bang brave, big body for a day can eat five to six times. Soon he'll come - well, I knew he came here. "You're not ashamed to wear sunglasses?" I asked in Jon Bang, new to the library. It has been four days he was sick eye, but this morning he thought he was cured. But still wear sunglasses. I wonder, this guy is really too confident. I increasingly feel uniquely surrounded by two friends who over-dose on different things. We walk home together, our house is close to schools, Bang Jon and Judi is also a friend of one housing complex. When something comes home from school. I said to myself as seen from a distance "(Uh, it ...)". "I'm very familiar with my own home ..." I began to fear strangers when someone drove into my house looks quietly. Because of the fear, I did not dare come home. "Ohh yes it is!" Gambling and agree with my Jon Bang. Judi saw me carefully, he knew I was afraid to fight. I look like Judi was thinking about me and planning something. "Okay, Ben - you go out immediately notify the security guard right now, I'll Catch Jon and Bang them through the front and shouted .. thief ... neighbors would come out all the "whisper Gambling sounded frightened me even more shapeless. Because of the fear, feels like shortness of breath at all, can not be uttered any word of mouth. "... Ben, come on ... security guard" Gambling membisiku again. I ran into an existing security post near the gate threshold of the road - no longer thought to what happens with my two best friends. Pak security guard panic hear my story - he was immediately notify the other officers to come soon catch the thief in my house. I returned home dibonceng officer with his motorcycle. About 4 minutes old when I went to the security post and returned to my house. "Oh my God!" shocked to see an officer of another security guard who came earlier than I was then smearing the tissue into a bloody nose Jon Bang. Gambling is seen also hand cuts like getting hit. Security guard immediately called the police as a result of this theft case. "Do not worry ... hehehe ... All three of us managed to thwart them. Earlier when we were calling the kettle black! Apparently there are no neighbors who came out of the house. As a result, the thief scampered out and hand to mouth with my berpas. Yes finally getting hit deh ... Gambling is also taxable serempet their car in a hurry to go "Bang said Jon calmly and pedenya. Then Judi replied to the words of Jon Bang "Your home is safe - we caught them at the beginning, so it did not get to take stuff home." Long story short, I treat them both. Mom Judi and Jon came kerumahku Tire and we explained what had happened. Surprisingly, the events of this thief like nothing ever happened. "Hahahahaha ... "Gambling actually laughed and went on to tell about his favorite characters while playing PlayStation. Meanwhile, Jon Bang tell if he still had time-saving sempatnya sunglasses nose just before getting hit. How do I? I also do not understand. Jon Bang is less clear when told of his experience. "(Hahahahaha. ..)" I laughed to myself because they both give a lesson to me. I might not cry over them, just shy dong bang Jon and Judi. But there are lessons to learn from these two best friends. The meaning of friendship is not just a friend to play and have fun. They better understand my fears and weaknesses. Judi and Jon Bang is my best friend. I thought, no one is willing to sacrifice his life if not for his best friend (Judi and Jon Bang one of them)